Simple Strategies to Build Listening Skills and Independence

Following instructions is a key skill that helps children succeed at school, at home, and beyond. It’s about listening carefully, understanding, and taking action—skills that grow with practice and encouragement.

Here’s how you can help your child develop this important ability in everyday moments:

1. Make Instructions Clear and Simple

Use short, specific phrases your child can understand. Break tasks into small steps, like:

• “Please put your shoes on the shelf.”
  

• “First, wash your hands, then come to the table.”
  

Clear instructions reduce confusion and build confidence.

2. Use Visual and Verbal Cues Together

Combine words with gestures, pictures, or demonstrations. For example, show your child how to put toys away while explaining.

3. Practice Through Play

Games like “Simon Says” are fun ways to practice listening and following directions. Dolls like Codie the Coder® inspire kids to follow step-by-step “coding” instructions, turning learning into a playful challenge.

4. Encourage Repeat-Back

Ask your child to repeat the instruction in their own words. This helps ensure they understand what to do.

5. Praise Effort and Success

Celebrate when your child follows instructions well:

• “Great job listening and putting your toys away!”
   Positive feedback motivates them to keep trying.
  

6. Model Following Instructions Yourself

Children learn a lot by watching. Show them how you follow directions and talk through your process.

Why It Matters

Being able to follow instructions helps children stay safe, complete tasks, and feel more independent. It’s a foundation for learning, cooperation, and confidence.

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